We saw kids playing with their dolls , they won't like others touching their dolls or playing things even their parents, is this possessiveness? even the grown have the same feeling, especially in the teens who s having girl/boy friend!!! Between the couples too?
Possessiveness kills relationship! I realized this later when i was into the same trouble. I was possessive to the extreme with almost all my (i ve very few, this might be the reason ?) relations. I feel like being in the hell when i saw my friend was getting closer with someone, until i realized my blunder. Its all because of the stupid insecurity within me.
Now i got that, possessiveness may come out of love, but it can't express your valuable love, rather it makes them uncomfortable and merely it restricts their freedom too:( . Above all Love doesn't mean being possessive, but understanding his/her circle and enjoy the purity of love and togetherness. Noone can't find identical two's in every aspects. I found everyone are unique in this world and started accepting people as they are.
It s only the possessiveness that stopped from receiving their love for me, thank god im now free from all my confusions and stress. I feel relaxed and secure within me :)
i wish you to get rid of these troubles if you are like me :)
i followed these steps!!!
1.Identify why you are feeling possessive
2.Let go of your fear and insecurity
3.Be true to yourself and love yourself
4.Release your desire to hang on
5.Remember that these are just feelings
6.Re-affirm your love
and wish you all happy Love and relationship that lasts forever!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Regards,
Alaika.
